Book Review: Shattered by the Darkness

book cover: Shattered by the Darkness by Gregory Williams

Shattered by the Darkness by Gregory Williams is a heart-wrenching account of childhood sexual abuse perpetrated by the author’s father over many years.

The book contains detailed descriptions of sexual abuse, sometimes with multiple abusers. There’s nothing gratuitously graphic in the descriptions; still, readers who’ve had similar abuse experiences should carefully consider whether they’re at a safe enough place in their own healing to read this.

The author clearly shows the total psychological control perpetrators wield, who instil guilt and shame (the “terrible twins”) and self-blame, into victims to ensure their silence.

Even descriptions of small details are powerful, like author washing himself over and over because “it seemed that I just couldn’t get clean enough.”

The author explains that during his junior year of high school, he verbally exploded during an incident of abuse and threatened to expose his father to the world. This was what it took to finally put an end to the abuse, at least on a physical level.

Williams describes the tremendous wreckage that was left behind deep within him, and how music and writing helped him to cope. Anger would suddenly flare up as he fought to bury the hurt. Heartbreakingly, he recounts the first time he opened up about the abuse, and his college roommate reacted with disgust.

The effects of the abuse on Williams’ life have been pervasive and enduring. He admits he still doesn’t look forward to bedtime because of the nightly abusive visits from his dad. He shares how hard it is to trust others and function in relationships, and when he looks at himself in the mirror, the reflection he sees “totally disgusts me.”

A particularly moving part of the narrative was when the author’s father was close to death and on a ventilator. After spelling out all his father had done to him, he concluded by telling him that he forgave him.

The book concludes by assuring the reader who’s been through abuse that they’re not alone, and they can find healing.  Williams writes that “there is always access to light inside of each and every one of us, no matter how black the darkness becomes.” His aim with the book was to help other victims feel able to talk about their own pain.

As gut-wrenching as the book is, there’s a clear message of hope. This book is profoundly human. There’s a simpleness to the style of writing that clearly reflects the underlying courage to tell a horrible story the way it was – nothing less, nothing more. This is a subject that absolutely needs to be brought out of the shame-filled corners and into the open. Williams makes an excellent contribution to that.

Shattered by the Darkness is available on Amazon (affiliate link).

I received a reviewer copy of this book from NetGalley.

You can find my other reviews on the MH@H book review index or on Goodreads.

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