Insights into Psychology

What Is… Vulnerability

What vulnerability is

In this series, I dig a little deeper into the meaning of psychological terms.  This week’s term is vulnerability.

Wikipedia has a couple of different pages related to this topic, one on social and the other on cognitive vulnerability.  It says that the word vulnerable derives from the Latin word vulnerare, which means to be wounded.  A diathesis-stress model explains psychological disorders as resulting from a combination of predisposed factors that make people vulnerable and external stressful experiences; protective factors help to mitigate this risk.

Types of vulnerability

Cognitive vulnerability results from erroneous patterns of thinking, which makes people more vulnerable to certain psychological problems, such as mood disorders.  Insecure attachment and stressful events contribute to this process.

Social vulnerability refers to the inability to handle the external stressors that one is faced with.  Structural factors, including social inequalities and political factors, can play a role. Entire communities may be vulnerable in what’s known as collective vulnerability,  “a state in which the integrity and social fabric of a community is or was threatened through traumatic events or repeated collective violence.”

Brené Brown

I don’t think it would be unfair to call author Brené Brown the queen of vulnerability.  She has written multiple books and given TED Talks, and is pretty all-around amazing.  In her book Daring Greatly, she challenges the idea that being vulnerable represents weakness, and instead says that “vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage”.  

She explains that being vulnerable involves emotional exposure, and while this may not feel comfortable it is at the core of all emotions.  Daring to be vulnerable requires a sense of worthiness to combat shame and beliefs that we are not good enough.

Being vulnerable

I am highly selective about who I’m prepared to be vulnerable with.  I’ve had some negative experiences, and these are hard to overcome.  I suppose I’m vulnerable on my blog, but there’s really not much that could happen in terms of negative repercussions with that.  I suppose all I can do is look for ways that I can be vulnerable, and at least try to push myself.

Is being vulnerable something that you struggle with?


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28 thoughts on “What Is… Vulnerability”

  1. Hmm…. vulnerability… I’m pretty much an open book. Maybe too open. But I often tell myself that if I tell others secrets about me, they can certainly feel free to share with me as well. Likewise if I listen to someone’s problem, I figure they’ll do the same for me if/when I’m feeling sad, or whatever. I like how vulnerability can go both ways, ya know?

    Great post! It’s got me sitting here lost in deep thought.

  2. I’m a highly sensitive person and I always am sensitive and very vulnerable. Nowadays, I learned to not be too open by people who not care. It’s just important to be vulnerable by the right people. I love people who are open and vulnerable. I feel like I can trust them. It’s increible brave to share the hard stuff in your life. I loved this post. Great explanation ❤️👏

  3. I am a continuous work in progress with vulnerability. I am grateful when others are vulnerable around me and try to be the same, but sometimes my walls and masks kick in and I have to move them aside. I know since I’ve really been working on it my relationships have really changed for the better. But still I have to work at it. I do believe Im vulnerable in my writing though. Another thought provoking post my friend! 😊💐

  4. Ooo this is a really interesting one to dig into a little more. I think emotional exposure and daring to ‘put yourself out there’ are very hard to do because it’s uncomfortable and we get conditioned by our experiences, such as what you’ve found with negative experiences in the past. I agree with Alexis. I find this a constant work-in-progress for me too, but do think you are vulnerable and brave in your blogging, and I like to think I take little steps towards opening myself up a little more in personal posts too.

  5. you were bullied
    from your workplace
    me i was bullied
    for who i was and was not
    and what i did
    and could not
    do to this day is all

  6. I think we all should embrace our vulnerability because we all our vulnerable. But i think i always find it hard to show my vulnerability. It’s so difficult to do just that. I would recommend you to watch this video about this topic and it’s only 4 minutes long.

  7. I used to hide away my entire life inside of me, but as a result of therapy over the summer I’ve realized how important vulnerability is in deepening relationships and receiving support. I am really trying to be more vulnerable. I track it on my diary card for DBT. So far, being vulnerable has greatly improved my life. I feel like my family understand me much better, I am less ashamed of myself, and I have better friendships.

  8. Okay… children are vulnerable (at least i was very trusting and open and loving) and told to be careful, weary, and then we still get hurt, then told to be vulnerable. 😔 Badass advice and i have no reason to wonder why i am so moody! I know why!! 💔

  9. I think it can be difficult to show our vulnerabilities to just anyone, for me there’s a fear of being judged, of thinking I’m not strong enough/good enough, fear of being offered unwanted advise or criticism. Being vulnerable requires trust.

  10. I always had a story of fear. Until I realized. I realized that having fear and showing up to life anyway = bravery. That being Love is bigger than being fear.

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