COVID-19/Mental Health Coping Toolkit

COVID-19/mental health coping toolkit from Mental Health @ Home

The COVID-19 pandemic turned the world upside down, showing us that life is unpredictable (and you never know when there might be a run on toilet paper). What remains constant, though, is the importance of taking care of ourselves and having effective strategies to deal with whatever comes along. That’s where this coping toolkit comes in.

The toolkit includes a range of options, most of which are free, to help you find balance to stay steadier in the storm. While this collection was inspired by the pandemic, most of these resources are not specifically COVID-oriented.

This page is a living document and new resources will be added as I find them.

Sections of the Coping Toolkit
Connect with peer support

Peer Support

Peer support groups and other programs provide an opportunity to connect with others with similar experiences.

Therapy workbooks

Therapy-Based Self-Help

There are lots of resources available to do your own work using concepts from evidence-based therapies like cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). Here’s a selection of free resources that I’ve found.

These sites have large collections of assorted worksheets:

  • GetSelfHelp: worksheets galore on a variety of topics
  • PositivePsychology.com: info and worksheets based on a number of different therapy models, including CBT, DBT, and positive psychotherapy
  • Psychology Tools: has a wide variety of worksheets, including CBT and DBT-based
  • Therapist Aid: worksheets that are geared for therapists to use with their clients

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

  • NHS inform: CBT-based self-help guides for anxiety, depression, and other topics

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)

DBT is very skill-based, and while it’s used most often for borderline personality disorder, many of the skills can also be useful to people with other mental health issues.

Other Resources

There are more free mental health resources available from the MH@H Download Centre, including Feeling Suicidal? A Workbook for the COVID-19 Era.

Bring self-compassion

Self-Compassion

Self-compassion involves:

  • Self-kindness when we make mistakes
  • Recognizing our shared humanity
  • Nonjudgmental mindful awareness

You’re just as human as everybody else, just as prone to messing up, and just as deserving of compassion. For further reading, Dr. Kristin Neff’s book Self-Compassion is a great resource.

The mindful RAIN acronym (recognize what's happening, allow it to just be, investigate kindly, and not identify), with graphic of rainbow, rain, and umbrella

Meditations

Self-care and self-soothing

Self-Care & Self-Soothing

Self-care isn’t a luxury; it’s an essential part of maintaining your mental wellbeing. These resources can give you inspiration for your self-care:

If you’re looking for a self-care subscription box, the UK charitable organization Blurt offers BuddyBoxes, available as a one-off or monthly subscription.

Self-Soothing

Grounding yourself in your senses can be helpful in difficult moments. During those difficult moments, thinking probably isn’t at its clearest, so having a pre-assembled self-soothing kit can make things much easier. You can also put together a more compact kit for use on the go.

You’ll want to include one or more things to engage each of your 5 senses.

Create a 5-senses self-soothing box with stimuli for sight, sound, taste, touch, and smell
  • Sight: e.g. favourite photos or a book of nature or travel photos
  • Sound: even if you can’t think of anything to physically put in your kit, you can write out the names of favourite songs or a playlist
  • Taste: e.g. your favourite kind of tea, candies
  • Smell: e.g. essential oils
  • Touch: e.g. fuzzy socks, a cozy blanket
Managing stress

Managing Stress

The stress bucket is a great model for conceptualizing how stress pours in and coping mechanisms allow it to pour out. Watch out for unhealthy coping mechanisms that will just siphon stress back up to the top of the bucket!

Your mental health will benefit the most if you can both reduce the stress going in and increase the stress going out through the use of coping skills. Treating mental illness can help to expand your bucket capacity.

The University of New South Wales has a helpful stress bucket worksheet.

The stress bucket model, with stress coming in the top of the bucket and taps releasing it from the bottom

Some stress management tools and other mental health tools:

Wellness practices

Wellness Practices

List of gratitude prompts

Cultivate Gratitude

Gratitude doesn’t make the bad stuff go away, but it’s a way to bring mindful awareness to the good stuff. Here are a few ideas on how to practice gratitude:

  • daily journal entry, either on paper or using an app
  • use prompts, like the A to Z prompt: identify things you’re grateful for starting with each letter of the alphabet; Pinterest is a great source of prompts, and you’ll find my collection here

Art & Music

People experience greater reductions in anxiety when colouring complex geometric patterns, such as mandalas, compared to unstructured colouring (source: Art Therapy).

To explore more art-related options, check out 100 Art Therapy Exercises, or read about my own experience doing paint by numbers.

Listening to music can benefit mental health (read more here about how music affects the brain), whether it’s something you do on your own or you work with a music therapist.

Meditation Apps

The bigger picture

Particularly for those of us with mental illness, happiness is not always an available option to choose. However, you can still take actions that will facilitate greater overall happiness as a state of being rather than pursuing happiness as a fleeting emotion.

GREAT DREAM: Giving, Relating, Exercising, Awareness, Trying out, Direction, Resilience, Emotions, Acceptance, Meaning
Action for Happiness
The tree of contemplative practices from The Contemplative Mind Foundation
The Center for Contemplative Mind in Society

Contemplative practices are a wide collection of both inward and outward-facing practices that are about creating more space between what’s happening and your response. Find out more in this post on contemplative practices.

Stillness is one of the branches on the contemplative tree, and a lovely way to find stillness is watching episodes of Joy of Painting with Bob Ross, the mellowest painter with the most soothing voice you will ever find. There are lots of videos on the Youtube channel devoted to his work.

Look on the brighter side

The Lighter Side

Life really sucks some of the time, but there’s still usually a lighter side to things. We’re not talking toxic positivity, and it doesn’t make the hard stuff go away, but it does ease the load for a little bit.

There’s a fabulous post on Rebelle Society about the Fuck-It Bucket, a new philosophy of life.

the fuck-it bucket: blue bucket filled with dead fish

The fuck-it bucket is multi-purpose. You can:

  • throw shit in so you don’t have to give it any more fucks
  • have a 2-part bucket where you throw in things that aren’t worth any fucks and pull out things that are a much better use of your fucks
  • fill your bucket with something fun like a rubber chicken or two, a roll of toilet paper, or some dead fish, and throw them, or imagine throwing them, at things you don’t want to give any more fucks about

Whether it’s silly animals, your favourite stand-up comedian, or clips from a tv show or movies, there are probably a few things that will make you laugh every time, even if you’re feeling lousy. Some of my faves are comedy by Trevor Noah or Russell Peters, The Heat with Melissa McCarthy and Sandra Bullock, and Seinfeld. I’m a big fan of “he took it out” from Seinfeld and “pivot” from Friends.

You can find some cute ugly animals and other lighter topics under the MH@H Just for Fun tag.

MH@H Download Centre: mini-ebooks and other resources
Visit the MH@H Download Centre for more mental health resources.

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