Emerging Blogger Series: Joey

Mental Health @ Home Emerging Blogger Series: You are not your intrusive thoughts by Joey of Schizowhatnow - pink background with cherry blossoms

The emerging blogger series is aimed at community building through giving mental health bloggers who are early in their blogging evolution the opportunity to have their work seen by a wider audience.  It’s also a way to introduce you as a reader to some newer members of our community.

This post is by Joey of Schizowhatnow.

 

"You are not your intrusive thoughts" written against a backdrop of a foggy highway

You are not your intrusive thoughts

My psychologist recently said to me “who do you think has lots of intrusive thoughts every day?”. This was easy, I had been diagnosed with OCD at age 13 and one of the first things I had learned was that intrusive thoughts were a big part of it. “People with OCD” I told her. Her response took me by surprise “everyone does, the difference is the response you have to the intrusive thoughts”. In my case, my intrusive thoughts take the form of unwanted thoughts of a violent nature involving people I care about, strangers and animals. 

Like all intrusive thoughts, they are “ego-dystonic“, meaning they go against the self. In other words, you think about the things you’d be least likely to do in the world. For years I feared that having thoughts about hurting people made me a bad person, like thinking the things was just as bad as doing the things. “Bad people don’t have intrusive thoughts like that” my psychologist told me “those types of thoughts sit well with them, therefore they’re not intrusive”. 

It took me a while to grasp the significance of this. It was second nature for me to think “I wish they died in a car crash” and then immediately after: “no I don’t, why did I think that? I’m so horrible”. Now I was becoming more aware of my response to thoughts like this. Instead of engaging in compulsions or berating myself, I would say “ok, that’s just an intrusive thought, I’m going to redirect my attention”. I’m finally starting to realise just because I think bad things, doesn’t mean I am a bad person.

To all of you who suffer from unwanted thoughts also, you’re not alone, you’re not a bad person and you are not your intrusive thoughts. 

 

Bio:

Joey is a mental health blogger diagnosed with OCD and Schizoaffective Disorder. He regularly writes about his own journey as well as informative posts about mental health.

https://schizowhatnow.wordpress.com/

 

Thanks so much Joey for participating in the emerging blogger series!

You can find a listing of all of the posts in the series directory.

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Do you want to be the next emerging blogger?

Criteria:

  • personal blog focused primarily on mental health and illness
  • relatively new blogger, with WordPress following <100 preferred

Interested?  If you fit the criteria above:

  • email me at mentalhealthathome (at) gmail (dot) com
  • let me know the topic you’d like to write about and include your blog name/URL

 

 

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7 thoughts on “Emerging Blogger Series: Joey

  1. eLPy says:

    Thank you for this post. I too have intrusive thoughts on one level or another. This is such a necessary reminder and a great start to being in control of my life instead of giving my power up to my thoughts. Again, thank you and best to you all.

  2. Meg says:

    That’s really deep. I have intrusive thoughts sometimes while I’m falling asleep. I think the Seroquel has something to do with it, but I’m not sure. My intrusive thoughts are more of the scary variety, though, like having my eyes poked out or having someone pull out my tongue. I’m glad to hear from this blogger, whose psychiatrist sounds like a genius.

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